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We’ve just crossed for me what is the beginning on Spring: Daylight Savings Time. While I know that it bothers other people and some people miss the earlier sunrises, for me it’s the time when my whole outlook brightens. It’s lighter at night! You can actually do something after the work day! I can see the sun out and feel it’s warmth (my office and apartment both face north, I’m sun starved most of the winter and crave any fresh air).
In the astrological calendar of the zodiac (as well as in many other traditions), the spring equinox is the start of the new year. New things are bursting out if the ground, and there is the excitement of possibilities of the new year (new planting, new summer trips, new jobs!). I like to think of all the new light happening as an opportunity to see things that have been hidden in the dark (and especially in Boston this winter, under a few feet if snow) and take a fresh inventory of life and see what the future might hold for me. If I live into my own personal power and capabilities, then I can choose my future and make things happen, either profession or personal.
One of my activities to do in the next week is to look at the 2011 calendar and decide what I’ll do. I just came back from a week in Florida (warmth!), but I know that I’ll want to take another trip later this year. What programs do I want to attend that will help my own growth? What programs do I want to offer to my clients? There is much to look at.
So, what is being illuminated for you now?
For the second year in a row, I’ll be delivering a career exploration workshop at Easton Mountain called “Finding Your Calling: Making Connections Between Your Spirit and Your Work” and this year I’m offering it on March 18-20, 2011. If should be a great opportunity for those people who are interested in finding out more.
For those of you interested in participating, here are the homework exercises that I ask everyone to complete before coming to the weekend:
- List, Ten People You Think Have Cool Jobs: Think about ten people who you know of (but may or may not know personally) who you think have really cool jobs, and list some of the reasons why you think their jobs are cool.
- List, Ten Organizations You Think Would Be Cool To Work At: Think about ten places you know of (but may or may not really have a great understanding of) where you think it would be really cool to work there, and list some of the reasons why you think it is cool.
- Essay, Perfect Day in Your Perfect Job: Write an essay (anywhere from one paragraph to three pages) of your perfect day in your perfect job. Include as many details as possible. Examples: When do you get to work? Who do you work with? What is the result of your actions? Answer as many “who, what, when, where, why, and how” questions as possible. You do not need to state the title of your job, they company, your particular duties, etc.
- List 10 Successes of Your Life: List 10 situations in your life that you consider a success. It does not matter if anyone else thought it was a success, but you felt proud of it. For each situation, notate:
1. The Situation that you encountered,
2. The Action you took to change that situation, and
3. The Result of that action.
- Pluses & Minuses of Current and Past Jobs: Look at the last three jobs that you’ve had, and make a list of at least five things you’ve liked, and five things you haven’t liked, about each position.
If you’re not sure if you want to come, you might want to start thinking about these exercises that might get your mind going. We’ll be going over them and much more in the workshop. Let me know if you have questions. A complete description of the workshop is available at the Easton Mountain programming page for the workshop.
So, what are you doing to get what you want in life?
As many of you know, I went through a big health and fitness transition a few years ago. I had a major illness ten years ago (burst appendix that wasn’t caught, leading to peritonitis and getting close to death) and after that, this man who had just completed the Boston Marathon three years earlier couldn’t exercise and ballooned up to 196 lbs.
That might not seem like much compared to other overweight people, but I’ve got a rather small frame and that’s a lot of weight on me (as you can see by the picture). After my divorce and a lot of inner work, I managed through exercise and working with a nutritionist to lose 43 lbs., getting down to my lowest at 153 lbs. This whole process was an issue of my taking control of my life and saying what was important and working toward that goal. I had a little set back from my illness about a year ago, and I’m about 10 lbs. over that weight, but I’m working to get that off again and get down to where I can get back into my 30″ pants.
I’m not much of a TV watcher, but one show I do like is The Biggest Loser. While there is a lot of twists and turns to the show, that part I like about it is that people are facing the things that have been keeping them back, making good choices for themselves, and working consistently to make improvements to their lives. It’s sometimes hard to watch, but it shows it’s not easy.
Last night on the show, one contestant, Arthur, who topped out at approximately 645 lbs., was voted off the show. It was a very emotional time, as everyone there knew that he really needed to be there to help him live, but Arthur had also made a lot of bad decisions and had really upset a lot of people. As Bob Harper posted today on his blog, Arthur made a lot of decisions out of fear, and usually those weren’t good decisions for him overall.
I see with my clients that many times people make a lot of bad decisions in their careers because they come out of a position of fear. What if another job doesn’t come up?, I should take this job because the economy is bad., I’ll never get a good job with my experience., etc. Granted, I’m a firm believer in reality, and understand that you sometimes have to make compromises in your life, but what I’ve found many people do is shy away completely from the possibilities when it gets rough. You have to know what you are facing, but that doesn’t mean you can’t move forward. If you know what you want and know what you need to do to get it, then all you have to do is follow your plan and take the action steps to do it. This is living out of personal power instead of fear. I think many people would have much happier lives if they worked this way.
So, as Martin Luther King Jr. said, what happens to a dream deferred, and what are you doing to take control of your dreams?